Who is Cristina Gherghel?
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| I have thousands of pictures. None is professional. This is the best I could find. |
I was born in the Golden Epoch of the former Socialist Republic of Romania, in a humble village nestled amidst the fields of hardworking farmers.
As the tenth child in a farmer's family, I grew up surrounded by the love and laughter of my six sisters and, once upon a time, four brothers, although now only two remain.
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| I was 7 years old, starting my first year at school. Impeccable sense of fashion, wouldn't you agree? :) |
In that moment, I knew with absolute certainty that my purpose in life was to become a writer. It was a dream that I never dared to dream, but one that filled me with an insatiable longing.
My introverted nature belies an extroverted exterior, and I find solace in the gentle patter of rain, as it resonates with the depths of my being.
When I immerse myself in the rain, something magical happens. As the droplets fall upon my skin and the rhythmic sound fills my ears, a sense of tranquility washes over me. It's as if the rain has the power to cleanse not just the world around me, but also my mind.
In those moments, my thoughts become crystal clear, unburdened by the noise and distractions of everyday life.
Raindrops are nature's whispered melodies, gently tapping upon the Earth's canvas, painting moments of serenity and renewal.
Snow holds a special place in my heart, as it blankets my childhood memories with a soft, luminous embrace. Growing up in an agricultural village, where the muddy roads seemed never-ending, the arrival of snow transformed our surroundings into a heavenly haven. Although we were slaves to our lands, even as children, we reveled in the enchantment of winter.
I am not scared of loneliness; in solitude, I discover my true self and gain clarity on what I must do. I could spend years enveloped in absolute silence, accompanied solely by my thoughts.
Stability is something I cherish, yet I find myself embarking on countless journeys out of sheer necessity.
At the age of 24, I made the decision to emigrate to Italy, where I resided for a decade, hopping from one place to another. Ah, the first encounter with Italian cuisine—a lesson in itself. Mastering the art of consuming spaghetti was no easy feat; tomato sauce seemed to find its way onto everything and everyone around me. However, through perseverance, I emerged victorious, I am now a professional spaghetti eater.
Motivated by an unquenchable thirst to understand the intricacies of human nature, I discovered that architecture merely pleases the eye, while true art resides in the realm of emotions.
However, it was in caring for the elderly, including my beloved parents, that I learned the most profound lessons.
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| These are my parents: Maria and Iosif (Joseph). Sadly, my father passed away in 2018. |
Within the pages of my books, I delve into the lives of individuals and their emotional landscapes. Most of my stories are born from truth, either grounded in reality or a delicate fusion of fact and fiction.
I am utterly fascinated by the intricate workings of the human mind, for it possesses an incredible ability to shape a reality that has not yet come to pass. It astounds me that people can not only perceive the world with their physical eyes but also envision a future that they deeply desire.
However, my mind remains blind, devoid of the ability to conjure vivid images within my imagination. This condition, known as aphantasia, has shaped my unique perspective on life. Perhaps this is why I am drawn so intensely to the realm of emotions, as they offer a tangible connection to the intangible.
In the domain of the law of attraction and the cosmic vibrations of the universe, I find solace in the teachings of the New Thought movement.
It has instilled in me the profound belief that our actions and intentions have a ripple effect, ultimately returning to us in some form or another. It aligns perfectly with the timeless wisdom encapsulated in the golden rule:
"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you."
Yet, I must admit that the reciprocity of this principle has not always been evident in my own life. Nonetheless, I remain steadfast in my conviction that every individual possesses the inherent power to manifest their deepest desires. This power lies dormant within the depths of our minds, awaiting our unwavering dedication and concerted effort to bring it forth into reality.
Should you hold a dream close to your heart, much like the one that has taken root within my own being, it is imperative to relentlessly pursue it with unyielding determination. The path to manifestation may be strewn with obstacles and challenges, but it is through persistent and focused action that we can begin to mold our dreams into tangible existence.
Only when you surrender to complacency does your dream transform into an impossibility. For me, my pursuit of dreams will not cease until my body rests six feet under, with the gentle petals of daisies blooming overhead. And even in that eternal slumber, my ultimate goal remains steadfast—to extend a helping hand to both humanity and nature, forever intertwined.
I thank you for passing by, for immersing yourselves in the words I have penned, and for allowing my stories to grace your lives, if only for a brief moment.
Your presence here means the world to me. It is your support, your curiosity, and your open hearts that give life to my words and make them resonate with meaning. You are the reason I pour my soul onto these pages, hoping to touch yours in return.
I invite you to embark on a journey with me, to join me in exploring the depths of emotions, the intricacies of human nature, and the wonders of our shared human experience. Together, let us dive into the tapestry of stories that I have woven, threads of joy, sorrow, love, and growth.
If my words have spoken to you, if they have stirred something within your being, I encourage you to stay connected. Follow along, as I continue to pour my heart into the written word. Join me in the exploration of new worlds and the unraveling of captivating narratives.
And should you feel compelled, I would be honored if you choose to support my work further. Consider purchasing my books (click here - it's Amazon), allowing them to find a cherished place on your shelves, and becoming a part of your literary collection. Your support not only fuels my passion but also empowers me to continue sharing stories that resonate with your soul.
A review anywhere would make my day. Here is my Goodreads author page (click).
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One last and incredibly significant point to mention, which I should have addressed earlier:
If you search for Cristina Gherghel's books online, you may find a scarcity of works between 2016 and 2019, as during that time I chose to sign them with Cristina G., a shortened version of my full name.
Your presence, your kind words, and your support mean more to me than words can express. Together, let us continue to discover the magic that lies within the pages of a book.
